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  • Yemen Brought Me Back to Life

    After I watched my friend lose his There are places in this world where you expect grief – war-torn cities, deserts, heartbreaks, its one of those emotions that is like a stray dog refusing to leave and if you’re like me, you almost in a sick way like to sit with it. But I did…

  • Sierra Leone – a Continuum

    February 2025 I landed in Sierra Leone with a feeling I hadn’t recognised in years. I travel constantly, sometimes to a new country every week and somewhere along the way the thrill that used to electrify me at every landing began to thin out. I stopped asking for window seats and started wearing an eye…

    Sierra Leone – a Continuum
  • A New Syria: From Dictatorship to Something Else

    In 2023, I made my first trip to Syria. Then another. Then another. By the end of the year, I’d crossed the border at least eleven times, perhaps more. As a tour guide, I was taking people into a country that almost every embassy had warned them not to approach. I knew it was controversial,…

    A New Syria: From Dictatorship to Something Else
  • Creating a Women’s Only Tour in Afghanistan

    “I stand on the sacrifice of a million women before me thinking how I can make this mountain bigger” – Rupi Kaur In the coming months I will head a women’s-only tour to Afghanistan. For most, travelling to the nation, particularly a woman, sends shivers down their spine. Understandably, at present, there seems to be no issue…

    Creating a Women’s Only Tour in Afghanistan
  • Pioneering Women Travel in Afghanistan

    A few hours ago, a group of extraordinary women and I boarded our flight from Kabul to Dubai, landing safely now (11:07 pm, 11th of July 2023), symbolising a successful expedition to Afghanistan as the first all-women tour since the Taliban takeover. As we sat in the waiting area of the Kabul airport for our…

    Pioneering Women Travel in Afghanistan
  • Let’s Talk Marriage, Afghani, and Australian Women’s World Collide in Bamiyan, Afghanistan

    Afghanistan has become synonymous with terrorism, war, and its extreme violations of women’s rights, whereby gender is the most significant determinant of one’s future. Since reclaiming the country by the Taliban in 2021, women have been removed from all spheres of public life, most suggesting homes becoming prisons, children becoming brides and bodies baby-making machines. …

    Let’s Talk Marriage, Afghani, and Australian Women’s World Collide in Bamiyan, Afghanistan
  • The Ethical Dilemma: A Western Woman’s Journey Through Afghanistan

    Travelling to Afghanistan is a profound privilege, especially for a woman from Australia. A certain sense of protection comes with being an outsider, a third party, to Afghan life’s intricate and often harsh realities. Being a foreigner, particularly from a country like Australia, offers a layer of safety that the locals may not have. But…

    The Ethical Dilemma: A Western Woman’s Journey Through Afghanistan
  • Coming Home to Sydney

    After years of travelling to some of the world’s most unique and far-flung corners, I’ve finally come home to Sydney. It’s a city that’s always held a special place in my heart, a place of familiarity, memories, and a life that once was. But coming home after so long, after immersing myself in places so…

    Coming Home to Sydney
  • Leaving the Shadows Behind

    Leaving a job is never easy, especially when it’s a job you once believed in. But sometimes, the place that was supposed to protect you and nurture your growth can be the opposite. When the realization hits that your well-being isn’t a priority, that your voice isn’t heard, and that the promises of support are nothing…

  • Mission to Mosul

    We all have life missions; for some, it is to meet someone special; for others, it’s to be their own boss. There are a range of options, limitless – proven over and over again. I found mine in 2014, an odd time perspective-wise, as it coincided directly with the self-declared caliphate and its place of…

    Mission to Mosul
  • Visiting “The Highway of Death” in Iraq

    If the name isn’t enough to shock you, there is no doubt the catalogue of images that have come to symbolize this period of the Gulf War will send shivers down your spine.  What is it? Officially it is called highway 80, but its gruesome past redefined this road changing its place in history and…

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  • Taking a Chance and Becoming an International Tour Guide

    Starting a new job is exciting and daunting, a new chapter to do something significant but the fear of – what if? What if it doesn’t work out? What if I am no good? If you are like me, you are naturally plagued by thoughts that lean more negative because in taking chances, we know…

    Taking a Chance and Becoming an International Tour Guide
  • The Girl from Aleppo, Syria

    As our final day in Aleppo ended, we raced to a vantage point to watch the sunset in the old city. As we reached the top of the hill and snugged into our jackets to escape the breeze, the cold quickly subsided as we became inundated by locals who wished to say hello. Amongst them…

    The Girl from Aleppo, Syria
  • Living in a Nest with Rattlesnakes, Afghans Women Not Submitting Quietly under the Taliban.

    In 2021, the world watched sombrely at the rapid collapse of Kabul by the Taliban. Many claimed it was a shock but considering the two-decade-long military presence, withdrawal of troops and existing government failures, it was no surprise. In retrospect, it created a power vacuum and the perfect conditions for the Taliban, who patiently waited…

    Living in a Nest with Rattlesnakes, Afghans Women Not Submitting Quietly under the Taliban.
  • Leaving the Shadows Behind

    Leaving a job is never easy, especially when it’s a job you once believed in. But sometimes, the place that was supposed to protect you and nurture your growth can be the opposite. When the realization hits that your well-being isn’t a priority, that your voice isn’t heard, and that the promises of support are nothing…

    Leaving the Shadows Behind
  • Being a Vegetarian in Afghanistan – The Must Try List

    Being a vegetarian traveller is sometimes hard, with many countries people (or guides) needing help understanding and accepting. In Afghanistan, meat is essential to the population’s diet, with lamb, mutton and beef ranking among the most popular dishes. It is also important to remember the country’s history and the dynamics of its population; the nation…

    Being a Vegetarian in Afghanistan – The Must Try List
  • The Garbage City of Cairo

    An alternative place and an alternative view When you think of Egypt, you think of ancient civilizations, inscriptions, pharaohs and, of course, Pyramids, more specifically, those of Giza, which are amongst the most visited tourist sites in the world. However, a mere few kilometres away from these wonders is a city that most tourists neither…

    The Garbage City of Cairo
  • Travelling to Burkina Faso Ahead of French Withdrawal

    OUAGADOUGOU, BURKINA FASO – If the city’s name is hard to recognise, pronunciation is out of the question. A landlocked country, considered one of the world’s poorest, struggling against the rise of Jihad seldom tops the list of a must visit destination. As such, it is often left behind on the world stage, stagnant and…

    Travelling to Burkina Faso Ahead of French Withdrawal
  • Being a Female Tour Guide in Unique Places

    Given the political climate, many things about being a tour guide need to be clarified, especially in the countries where Young Pioneer operates as a woman. Nevertheless, there is intrigue, concern and often judgement which, for the most part, is grounded in genuine interest. So here is the truth about being a female tour guide…

    Being a Female Tour Guide in Unique Places
  • Is it safe for females in Socotra?

    Is it safe for females to travel to Socotra, in short yes it is, but there are precautions that should be taken, as well as cultural norms that should be followed.  What is the backstory to Socotra An island off of the African and Yemeni coast it was once part of the British empire, briefly…

    Is it safe for females in Socotra?
  • Visiting Iraq as a Women – 5 Valuable Tips

    First and foremost, let’s address the elephant in the room, the most frequent question – Is Iraq Safe for women? Granted, it is a good question; I even posed it myself as a 26-year-old woman. Unfortunately, my entire life, what I was consuming didn’t push Iraq to the top of my bucket list. Then again, good news…

    Visiting Iraq as a Women – 5 Valuable Tips
  • First Tour in Iraq as a Guide

    I am in Iraq. Iraq. I arrive at the airport, clear immigration, and visa on arrival for Australians – who knew it was so easy? My passport is now forever stamped with the nation. I am with a client, so I do my best to act like I know the protocol. Security check, baggage claim,…

    First Tour in Iraq as a Guide
  • How to visit the Great Mosque of Samarra

    Formerly out of reach or your average rank-and-file tourist stop, post-Saddam and ISIS Iraq is now very much open for business, including the Great Mosque of Samarra. What is the hortatory of the Great Mosque of Samarra? Dated from the 9th century AD, or CE (depending on your preference), the site was once the biggest…

    How to visit the Great Mosque of Samarra
  • The Al-Shaheed Monument in Baghdad 

    The Al-Shaheed monument, also known as the Martyr monument, is one of Iraq’s premier attractions in Baghdad. Unsurprisingly the unique design, vibrant colour, and sheer size stand out amongst the backdrop of traditional architecture in the city. The Al-Shaheed Monuments Purpose The Al-Shaheed monuments story began in 1978, the height of Saddam Hussein’s extravagate commissioning…

    The Al-Shaheed Monument in Baghdad 
  • The Forgotten Iraqi Mesopotamian Marshes

    When you think about Iraq, what comes to mind? For many, the image is bleak. Over the last few centuries, this region has become synonymous with war, terrorism, Saddam Hussein, desert, and a whole lot of oil. But amidst the chaos and bad news stories is a natural oasis, the location of the garden of…

    The Forgotten Iraqi Mesopotamian Marshes
  • Travelling the 5 Stans Checklist 

    The Silk Road, also the “Stans”, is without a doubt one of the most critical routes in history linking East and West. But it does cross five diverse countries: Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan, Tajikistan, Turkmenistan, and Uzbekistan, all of which have different requirements and a lot of distance inbetween. Planning is essential for a successful and enjoyable…

    Travelling the 5 Stans Checklist 
  • Wearing a Hanbok – The North Korean Traditional Dress

    Sometimes clothing is more than just an item that we wear to look good and protect ourselves from elements, it’s a communicator of culture and identity. In Korea, many items have this significance but often the most identifiable is the Hanbok, also referred to as a Joseon-oth in North Korea.  WHAT IS A HANBOK? The Hanbok…

    Wearing a Hanbok – The North Korean Traditional Dress
  • SERIAL COFFEE DATER IN COVID TIMES. Date 6: Max, Exceptional.

    Before Coffee In 2015 I travelled Cambodia with my friend Heather, who would cross paths with a group of boys she knew back home.  Our small girl duo was soon flooded with testosterone; thankfully, they were without a single doubt the funniest guys I have ever met. I quickly admired the English sense of humour,…

    SERIAL COFFEE DATER IN COVID TIMES. Date 6: Max, Exceptional.
  • SERIAL COFFEE DATER IN COVID TIMES. Date 5: Englishman Sam, Adventurer.

    Before Coffee In 2018, I was in Xi’an, China, unable to sleep in a 16-person dorm. So naturally, I did what any weary traveller would do; I pulled out my phone and began scrolling through Instagram of all the places I wanted to go. I don’t know why I remember it so vividly, but I…

    SERIAL COFFEE DATER IN COVID TIMES. Date 5: Englishman Sam, Adventurer.
  • SERIAL COFFEE DATER IN COVID TIMES. Date 4: James, College Friend.

    Before Coffee: In my first few hours at university, I met James, a third-year student, and instantly became friends. I’ll admit, I thought I was pretty cool hanging out with third-year students, and I still think I’m cool to have him as a friend. Our college experience was, unlike most, a truly unique experience. As…

    SERIAL COFFEE DATER IN COVID TIMES. Date 4: James, College Friend.
  • SERIAL COFFEE DATER IN COVID TIMES. Date 3: Larissa, Dear Friend.

    Before Coffee I met Larissa at 12 years of age in our first year of high school, and what an incredible journey has transpired. I think any friendship that can endure those troubled teenage years and come out stronger than before is one that is bound for life. Over the last 13 years, she has,…

    SERIAL COFFEE DATER IN COVID TIMES. Date 3: Larissa, Dear Friend.
  • SERIAL COFFEE DATER IN COVID TIMES. Date 2: Michael – Colleague, Friend.

    Before Coffee: Michael is a colleague at my work; in fact, he was the person who gave me my job – so I suppose you could say he changed my life due to his significant input and redirection of it. My first opinion of Michael was- introverted, well-spoken, and highly professional. Every time I met…

    SERIAL COFFEE DATER IN COVID TIMES. Date 2: Michael – Colleague, Friend.
  • SERIAL COFFEE DATER IN COVID TIMES. Date One: Sam – Friend, Work Wife.

    Before Coffee: I couldn’t think of anyone better to have my first date with than Sam because despite feeling like we’ve known each other for a lifetime, the reality is she only blessed my life three months ago. I met Sam Monday the 12th of April 2021; I remember it so clearly not only in…

    SERIAL COFFEE DATER IN COVID TIMES. Date One: Sam – Friend, Work Wife.